What do you see?

“If you are patient in one moment of anger, you will escape a hundred days of sorrow.” ~Chinese proverb

Take a monument from your anger. Set it aside. Take a deep breathe. Look at things from a different perspective Think about why you are so angry? Why have you allowed this anger to consume you. To cloud your judgement? To cloud how you view others? What will you accomplish from being so angry?

Take a moment and think about who you are really angry with? Take a moment to step into their shoes. Walk a mile in their day. See what they see. Feel what they feel. Deep down you care about this person or you wouldn’t care to be so angry. What do you really want them to know? That you are hurt? That they don’t act as you wish they would? Let go of your expectations  of them and fill that spot with more love and acceptance for them. You cannot change anyone. You can only change and control yourself and how you react. 

If you can’t find it in your heart to find that peace with them or truly accept them as they are, to appreciate all the positives they share into your life. If you can only dwell on you being right and them being wrong then stop hurting them and let them go. If you don’t find your peace from that then it is time to step up to the mirror and reflect on you. I pray for all those dealing with hurt and angry feeling that God help you find that peace inside you and fill you with his love so that your heart may be full. ❤️

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